Abrasive relation
Extinguishment
ILI ↔ ILEThey may care about similar things but approach them from opposite directions. That can open up a new perspective, or leave both feeling held back.
Also called Contrary
ILI and ILE stand in the same position, so the relation reads the same from either side.
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How Extinguishment works
When it helps
Each lets the other see things differently, without expecting matching reactions or one shared way of doing everything.
What to notice
An intriguing first meeting can give way to frustration when their day-to-day responses keep missing each other.
Abrasive relations. What comes easily to one person may be harder for the other to enjoy or keep up with. Patience and clear expectations can make a difference.
What passes between them
Every type has eight functions, from what comes most naturally to what costs the most effort. These are the places where ILI’s and ILE’s meet most directly.
- Common groundWhere things are heading
NiComes easily to both, so they tend to understand each other here.
ILI leading · ILE ignoring - Common groundGetting things done
TeComes easily to both, so they tend to understand each other here.
ILI creative · ILE demonstrative - Common groundNew possibilities
NeComes easily to both, so they tend to understand each other here.
ILI ignoring · ILE leading - Common groundHow things fit together
TiComes easily to both, so they tend to understand each other here.
ILI demonstrative · ILE creative
4 quieter links
- Quieter linkComfort and balance
SiWeaker for both: one looks for help here, the other would rather avoid it.
ILI role · ILE suggestive - Quieter linkExpressing emotions
FeWeaker for both: one looks for help here, the other would rather avoid it.
ILI vulnerable · ILE activating - Quieter linkTaking action
SeWeaker for both: one looks for help here, the other would rather avoid it.
ILI suggestive · ILE role - Quieter linkTrust and personal bonds
FiWeaker for both: one looks for help here, the other would rather avoid it.
ILI activating · ILE vulnerable
How this pairing resolves to Extinguishment
Both types’ eight functions, side by side
Rows follow Model A’s eight function positions, from Leading (1) to Demonstrative (8); they are not a ranking of strength or value. The highlighted rows are the contacts that hold across all sixteen ordered pairs the archive assigns to Extinguishment.
Where this comes from
The relation name and roles come straight from the archived relation table, and the meeting points follow from Model A. The summaries are the Atlas’s plain-language reading of the archived Extinguishment guide: a place to start, not a prediction about two real people.
Archived guide metadata
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Technical details
- Structural fingerprint
7 → 8 → 5 → 6 → 3 → 4 → 1 → 2All eight contacts, ordered from ILI’s first through eighth positions.- All eight contacts
- 4 shared strengths · 4 quieter links
- Why Extinguishment
- The same broad block shape also appears in Quasi-identity. The exact order of the contacts is what makes this Extinguishment.
- Model A
- Function positions and blocks come from the archived Model A and Functions pages (
17f5a976a93f…). These contacts hold for all sixteen ordered pairs the table calls Extinguishment, checked against all 256 cells. - Relation table
- Read the relation table hereCanonical citation ↗
intertype.html#complete-table - How the guide is written
- Atlas learning guide · source synthesis; editorial guidance labeled separately