Abrasive relation

Super-ego

ILI ↔ SEI

Each may admire something the other does well, while feeling less sure of that same area in themselves. Closeness can make this more delicate.

ILI and SEI stand in the same position, so the relation reads the same from either side.

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How Super-ego works

When it helps

Tact and personal space let them appreciate their differences without needing to match each other.

What to notice

Admiration can turn into rivalry or criticism. Either person may feel the other is overlooking what they need.

Abrasive relations. What comes easily to one person may be harder for the other to enjoy or keep up with. Patience and clear expectations can make a difference.

What passes between them

Every type has eight functions, from what comes most naturally to what costs the most effort. These are the places where ILI’s and SEI’s meet most directly.

  • FrictionILI → SEIWhere things are heading Ni

    Comes easily to ILI; SEI can keep up, but may find it tiring over time.

    ILI leading · SEI role
  • FrictionILI → SEIGetting things done Te

    Comes easily to ILI, but it is a sore spot for SEI, so confidence here may land harder than intended.

    ILI creative · SEI vulnerable
  • FrictionSEI → ILIComfort and balance Si

    Comes easily to SEI; ILI can keep up, but may find it tiring over time.

    ILI role · SEI leading
  • FrictionSEI → ILIExpressing emotions Fe

    Comes easily to SEI, but it is a sore spot for ILI, so confidence here may land harder than intended.

    ILI vulnerable · SEI creative
4 quieter links
  • Quieter linkSEI → ILITaking action Se

    SEI can handle it quietly; it is a weaker area for ILI.

    ILI suggestive · SEI ignoring
  • Quieter linkSEI → ILITrust and personal bonds Fi

    SEI can handle it quietly; it is a weaker area for ILI.

    ILI activating · SEI demonstrative
  • Quieter linkILI → SEINew possibilities Ne

    ILI can handle it quietly; it is a weaker area for SEI.

    ILI ignoring · SEI suggestive
  • Quieter linkILI → SEIHow things fit together Ti

    ILI can handle it quietly; it is a weaker area for SEI.

    ILI demonstrative · SEI activating

How this pairing resolves to Super-ego

Both types’ eight functions, side by side
Reading Model AMatching positionsResolving relation
ILIModel A
1Niintroverted intuitionLeading
2Teextraverted logicCreative
3Siintroverted sensingRole
4Feextraverted ethicsVulnerable
5Seextraverted sensingSuggestive
6Fiintroverted ethicsActivating
7Neextraverted intuitionIgnoring
8Tiintroverted logicDemonstrative
SEIModel A
1Siintroverted sensingLeading
2Feextraverted ethicsCreative
3Niintroverted intuitionRole
4Teextraverted logicVulnerable
5Neextraverted intuitionSuggestive
6Tiintroverted logicActivating
7Seextraverted sensingIgnoring
8Fiintroverted ethicsDemonstrative

Rows follow Model A’s eight function positions, from Leading (1) to Demonstrative (8); they are not a ranking of strength or value. The highlighted rows are the contacts that hold across all sixteen ordered pairs the archive assigns to Super-ego.

Where this comes from

The relation name and roles come straight from the archived relation table, and the meeting points follow from Model A. The summaries are the Atlas’s plain-language reading of the archived Super-ego guide: a place to start, not a prediction about two real people.

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reference/shared-theory/superego.rst.txt · SHA-256 ddecb9708a96e24b2e507954ba36c00f7f1951bf036a539cb0c8c3020faf1d5fCanonical source ↗
Technical details
Structural fingerprint
3 → 4 → 1 → 2 → 7 → 8 → 5 → 6All eight contacts, ordered from ILI’s first through eighth positions.
All eight contacts
4 friction points · 4 quieter links
Why Super-ego
The same broad block shape also appears in Conflict. The exact order of the contacts is what makes this Super-ego.
Model A
Function positions and blocks come from the archived Model A and Functions pages (17f5a976a93f…). These contacts hold for all sixteen ordered pairs the table calls Super-ego, checked against all 256 cells.
Relation table
How the guide is written
Atlas learning guide · source synthesis; editorial guidance labeled separately